Respect Thy Shaver...
Here I am... Only a 2 weeks later!
Where do I even start?!?! Perhaps I will tell you a little bit about the Head Shaving Party we hosted on Sunday. I am not sure if you are ever `ready`to shave off 12 inches of long hair but by Sunday afternoon I felt as ready as I suppose one could feel. It was never my intention to shave it before I started treatment rather than do it a week or two into it. In my case however my treatment start date kept changing and finally when I found a day everyone said yes to I just decided to stick with it. My closest friends were in attendance - Hayley, Kookie, Sarah, Kate, Laura, Nancy, Kim, Christina and Lisa then Shannon and Alison joined us via Web cam (love technology!) and both Raff and Cam were there to keep J sane while all of the `BOK BOKKING` between the `Chickens` was going on. (By the way that means – ‘girls talking’ in Jason`s world)
I could hardly blame him; 9 women in one room... 3 of which are pregnant! Eck. Everyone brought some sort of appy so we had tons of food from cheese and crackers to veggie platters to egg rolls! It was sooo yummy. And then there was wine..lots and lots of wine. Probably not the smartest of me seeing as it dehydrates you and my first treatment appointment was at 8:48am the next morning!Our guests arrived at 4 and I think we didn`t start the festivities until around 6 or 7. Perhaps it was a little unconscious procrastination on my part. We spent time chatting and catching up and trying to get our Web Cam buddies in the room with us flawlessly. Shannon joined us first and met Kim and Cam for the first time. She was very fond of Cam because he spent the most time chatting with her. It was like she was in the room though on my 17” computer screen! Alison tuned in a little while later and met those she had never met and said hello to everyone she knew. Kate seemed to be the designated photographer... but as it turned out I came up with a huge amount of pictures on my camera!
Laura gave me a wig and hair products for it that was passed along from a work friend of hers who had cancer also. It is a really cute bob and I managed to get a picture of almost all of my friends in it. Super cute! Cam drew me a really nice card which everyone had signed and I loved it! Also they all put in to give me some money to purchase a wig of my own choice. It was a great start to my evening. We also gathered around to take a group shot of the ladies. One was nice, and one was goofy.Finally we got the show on the road and prepared for the shaving of my head. I thought we’d lay a sheet out or something but I was convinced by everyone else that sweeping it off the laminate would be easiest. I wouldn’t know because I was not the cleaner upper. Nancy braided my hair into a tidy braid... and Jason came along and snipped it off. It was then passed around and ended up and Cam’s pho beard braid. (It looked better on me I assure you!) The first hair cut looked kind of cute and the second I defiantly looked like a butchy dyke (scuse my Japanese). It was fun and good laughs though. At some point Hayley had created a short Mohawk also. Everyone at my lil gathering gotta take hair off my head.
After about an hour of this malarkey Cam did the finishing touches and perfected my buzz cut! And we took a ton of pictures. Unfortunately we never managed to get a
nice picture of my new non - existent hair with no one else in it. (Sorry mom... I’ll work on getting you one). Then to make things a little spicier... Jason sat his butt in the chair and decided last minute that it was his turn and he would shave with me. Cam shaved him old man style which was hilarious and then off with the rest of it. After all of that I got a little bit emotional (I was a little tipsy also) and Jason and I hopped into the shower to wash off the little whiskers all over ourselves.In the meantime... Wiser was having a swell visit with Lou Bear (Kate’s yorkie) and Picca (Sarah’s kitten) running around and tearing up the house.
I think this is all for tonight. Since shaving my head I have been opened up to a new world. First off I look not half bad with a shaved head surprisingly! I have a nice shaped head; something I suppose you would not know until the hair is off. More importantly it is cold having no hair – I don’t know how guys do it without wearing a toque and ear muffs constantly. It was extremely hard not wearing a toque to bed for the first week. And lastly it is pretty neat having a 3 minute shower with time to spare! Not to mention that “towel drying” literally means “running the towel over your head to dry it”!!! LOL! There is a bright side to everything :D










